There was a girl who really hated me because I had previously told her that cafemom was not highschool and she needed to grow up. Oh and I dared to leave her little private group because I thought it was immature. She really had it out for me. So I admit I goaded her in this conversation, but I didn't quite know if she really thought it was irreverent or if she was just being a bitch because she didn't like me. Then I got pretty catty and got the thread locked.
I will say there is way more drama in a group of LDS women than I've ever seen around postmo. Perhaps it is because postmo has men to help balance out some of the cattiness, but I do think leaving the church has something to do with it since we aren't as judgmental of each other any more.