need some good positive energy my way ...Please!

[lisa]

I know I just pop in and out of here...and never really communicate a ton with you guys. Its not that I am not reading your posts and learning a great deal from them though.

Ok to the point;

My Ex-Husband is in Prison for molesting our children. He comes up for parole on October 11th. We will be attending his parole hearing trying to keep him there for the entire 30 yr sentence. I just wanted to ask for positive energy...and prayers for those that do that....so that we might do well when we speak at the hearing. I know I am going to rock his world. He isnt even going to know what hit him!

Thanks for all you do...I gain so much from each one of you...even if I don't share that often.

Lisa

[dogzilla]

:: Works a positive, supportive, healing spell ::

Best of luck to you Lisa. Feel free to post here if you need to share and need additional support. Beyond what you're already getting from friends and family.

Here's a big hug.



{{{{{{{{lisa}}}}}}}}

[peter_mary]

My Ex-Husband is in Prison for molesting our children. He comes up for parole on October 11th. We will be attending his parole hearing trying to keep him there for the entire 30 yr sentence. I just wanted to ask for positive energy...and prayers for those that do that....so that we might do well when we speak at the hearing. I know I am going to rock his world. He isnt even going to know what hit him!

Lisa
Lisa,

Afraid my prayers go largely ignored these days, (such is the bane of the non-believer), but I have this KILLER "Karma Kap" that I keep around for just these kinds of circumstances. I'll plug it in, put it on, and send you all the positive energy I can muster, amplified considerably by my Kap!

:: plugs it in ::

:: puts it on ::

:: focuses ::

It's on it's way! Brace yourself!

We'll be thinking of you, Lisa, on this rather important day. Rock on!

Peter_Mary

[why me]

I wish you and your children strength to say what needs to be said and to do what needs to be done. I wish you all the best at his parole hearing. Take care and be well!
:)

[silverfox]

I know I just pop in and out of here...and never really communicate a ton with you guys. Its not that I am not reading your posts and learning a great deal from them though.

Ok to the point;

My Ex-Husband is in Prison for molesting our children. He comes up for parole on October 11th. We will be attending his parole hearing trying to keep him there for the entire 30 yr sentence. I just wanted to ask for positive energy...and prayers for those that do that....so that we might do well when we speak at the hearing. I know I am going to rock his world. He isnt even going to know what hit him!

Thanks for all you do...I gain so much from each one of you...even if I don't share that often.

Lisa


(((((LISA AND KIDS)))))

Best wishes!!! Sending emotional strength and good karma your way! Keep us posted!

[free thinker]

Remember. You are post-mormon. You have the express right as such, to not take sh** from anyone.

He is where he belongs.

free thinker

[helemon]

I know I am going to rock his world. He isnt even going to know what hit him!


Lets hope that is the case! Good luck!

[elder_nomo]

I just wanted to ask for positive energy...and prayers for those that do that....so that we might do well when we speak at the hearing.
Lisa
Joining with your other post-mo pals, sending more positive energy wrapped another big cyberhug....

post-mo's ====> positive energy ====> (((((Lisa)))))

Our thoughts and best wishes are with you.

[silverfox]

Joining with your other post-mo pals, sending more positive energy wrapped another big cyberhug....

post-mo's ====> positive energy ====> (((((Lisa)))))

Our thoughts and best wishes are with you.

NOT TO GET OFF TOPIC BUT....

Elder NoMo WHERE THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN??????


Back to the thread.......: )

[free thinker]

NOT TO GET OFF TOPIC BUT....

Elder NoMo WHERE THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN??????


Back to the thread.......: )
__________________


You make me laugh Silver. :D Sorry nomo. I had to smile.

free thinker

[Born Free]

Ok to the point;

My Ex-Husband is in Prison for molesting our children. He comes up for parole on October 11th. We will be attending his parole hearing trying to keep him there for the entire 30 yr sentence. I just wanted to ask for positive energy...and prayers for those that do that....so that we might do well when we speak at the hearing. I know I am going to rock his world. He isnt even going to know what hit him!

Thanks for all you do...I gain so much from each one of you...even if I don't share that often.

Lisa

Lisa,

I feel deeply for you in the aftermath of discovering your husband was capable of such behaviour and contemplating the effect upon your children and your failure to detect what happened.

I also know from extensive research that 1000 years in most jails does nothing to fix this 'problem' and that as a society we say too hard; throw the key away. That does not heal the wounds left, and does not address the offenders problems. Not in any way!!!

Sadly even whan the door slams shut, he is still your children's Dad, and seeing him as an irredeemable scumbag, will at one level or another, be acutely toxic to them and you.

Have you been able to access any treatment to assist you deal with the shock and implications of this development? They are profound in their effects, and our society gets so indignant about the 'evil' that it fails to see that offenders are only the tip of the iceberg.

The small percentage of offenders caught does not make this problem go away. As a society we rarely manage anything more than token responses on this issue. As a society we rarely confront the many and subtle ways we are complicit in such developments.

My thoughts and support reach out to you all, and with it, the hope that healing can be achieved, lasting deep healing and understanding.

Daryl

[elder_nomo]

NOT TO GET OFF TOPIC BUT....

Elder NoMo WHERE THE HELL HAVE YOU BEEN??????


Back to the thread.......: )
HI SILVERFOX!!
Been very busy at work and had to content myself with lurking for a while.
But honey, I'm back!! :) ... Thanks for missing me!
OK, now really back to the thread.
Group hug to Lisa! http://www.mazeguy.net/romantic/grouphug.gif

[hamar]

Lots of positive energy to you Lisa, and I sincerely hope that that a**hole doesn't get out. And yes there will be prayers from this source as well.

While I agree with Silverfox, I really don't know of any fix for this kind of person. The pessimist in me thinks that some of the parts that pedifiles/abusers use to abuse children should be surgically removed...hands, penis, head, etc. Don't know that counseling works; maybe removing the brain or altering the abusers memory or some other radical fix.

Society seems to be more concerned for the poor pedifile/abuser/criminal. In this situation Lisa has to think, every waking moment, about what will happen if her ex-husband is released how she will ever sleep again, knowing that there is not much she will be able to do about keeping him away from her and her children if he chooses to come after them again.

Yea, he'll end up in jail again, but not until after he's done a lot of damage first.

Sorry, Lisa, didn't mean to editorialize so much here, but I've seen this so many times before and feel your fear and sense of helplessness if he is released. Please return and report.

[lisa]

Many thanks to all for lending your support.

To answer a few questions.

Me and my children have had only the best as far as therapy is concerned. We have had the chance to heal ourselves and not be victimized by anyone ever again. He will not be able to use his sneaky manipulations on any of us when we go to his parole hearing; we are far removed from that and now see everything for what it truly is. Controll, and manipulation!

As far as he is concerned; he has not failed one sex offender treatment program but three. As I see it, its not that he has not been offered treatment its that he refuses treatment. In his sick mind he really belives that he has no problem. I need to think of my two beautiful grandbabies now. As well as my chilren. They have all disowned this man as their father and have really moved on with thier life. This parole hearing is just a bump in our road to keep life interesting.

Love ya all;

Lisa